How To Deal With Negative Opinions About Us
Thursday, September 6th, 2007
Hey Tomaz, I would like to thank you for all of the great articles on tennis and the mental toughness that comes along with it.
I’ve been fortunate enough to read and apply this information to my own tennis game and would like to say that slowly but surely it is making an impact on how I play.
I had always been the player to get very angry at matches and would explode with emotion and this was a question that plagued me and I couldn’t figure out why this happened.
Your information on tennis psychology has helped me very much in controlling and applying my best tennis to the game and another fascinating thing, life in general.
But my mind is always wondering and I just wanted to ask you about how our psychology reacts to other people’s negativity.
I mean at times for me I feel like when I hear something negative is said about me or even if I’m around negativity it for some reason bothers me.
I understand we control most of the things that go around in our heads, this is an amazing phenomenon.
But I guess my question is if this is something we can control, or is it on the subconscious level where it affects us no matter what even though we think we beat it.
I would love to hear everything there is to know about this topic and the human psychology on it in general.
May I ask you to leave your input on these questions that yearn for answers in my mind. Thank you very much for your time and your service.

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